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Baldur's Gate 3 offers a diverse range of romance options, enriching the game with some of its most memorable moments. Whether you're seeking a long-lasting relationship or a fleeting encounter, the game caters to all preferences. This guide provides a comprehensive walkthrough for each romance option in Baldur's Gate 3, helping you navigate the paths to romance without missing out on any potential relationships.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

Romance in BG3 Explained:

In Baldur's Gate 3, romance options are available to all players regardless of their character's gender. The game features both short-term and long-term relationships, with the nature of each romance varying significantly based on the character and your goals. Some characters allow for one-night stands, while others require a more prolonged courtship.

Be aware that certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance paths. Some require timely task completion, and others may be affected by your romantic involvement with other characters. Most companion NPCs can be romanced, but each relationship alters your experience uniquely, making it impossible to explore every romance in one playthrough. Below, we delve into the specifics of each romance option.

All Romance Options:

The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:

• Shadowheart
• Gale
• Astarion
• Karlach
• Wyll
• Lae'zel
• Halsin
• Minthara

Additionally, non-companion characters are available for short-term romance:

• Mizora
• Guardian/Emperor
• Drow Twins
• Haarlep
• Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart is often the first companion you'll encounter, and her romance path is relatively straightforward. She is integral to the plot, adding depth to her journey when romanced.

How to Romance Shadowheart:

• Keep Shadowheart in your party to boost her approval rating through acts of kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy. Supporting her against Lae'zel early on can significantly increase her approval.
• Once her approval is high enough in Act I, look for the "missed a chance to connect" dialogue or wait for the camp party after rescuing Halsin. If you've shown interest, an exclamation mark will appear over her head. Accept her invitation to share a bottle and choose to spend the evening with her. During the subsequent walk, avoid dialogue options that indicate disinterest to end the night with a kiss. Follow up with a conversation to affirm your interest in a long-term relationship.
• In Act II, you can side with either Selune or Shar and continue your romance. Support her new look if she chooses Selune, or be patient for the nighttime event if she chooses Shar.
• In Act III, complete her quest and enjoy a final romantic swim, selecting the kinder dialogue options to unlock a special scene.

Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:

• Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romantic interests, though this isn't always the case. In Honor Mode, it's best to remain exclusive to avoid complications.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is open to romance and plays a crucial role in the game's plot.

How to Romance Gale:

• Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site.
• Comply with Gale's requests to consume magical items, which may occur up to three times in Act I.
• Attend Gale's magic lesson in Act I and choose romantic dialogue options. Avoid being mean to keep future romance options open.
• Support Gale during the Elminster cutscene before transitioning to Act II, showing care for his well-being.
• In Act III, keep Gale alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries. Speak with Gale before taking a long rest, choosing "Close your eyes," "Kiss Him," and "You're already everything I need you to be" to unlock the final romance scene.

Gale Romance Special Notes:

• Gale prefers exclusivity and will not be happy if you romance other characters.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance. He's also one of the most open-minded partners.

How to Romance Astarion:

• Build approval by choosing self-serving and sarcastic options, and allow Astarion to drink your blood to boost your relationship.
• At the party, engage in conversations with Astarion, choosing options that lead to the first major romance scene. Let him bite you to further increase approval.
• After the first scene, show interest in his scars and ask about their Infernal writing.
• In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about the scars. Choose supportive dialogue during Astarion's nighttime visit.
• In Act III, complete his quest and choose whether to let him complete the ritual. Support him to unlock the final romantic scenes, with the possibility of becoming a vampire if he completes the ritual.

Astarion Romance Special Notes:

• Astarion is tolerant of non-exclusive relationships, making him unique among the companions.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach's romance is rewarding but requires careful handling due to her sensitivity about exclusivity.

How to Romance Karlach:

• Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early to build approval through kindness and understanding, while supporting necessary violence.
• Collect Infernal Iron quickly to help Karlach with her heart issue through Dammon at the Emerald Grove. Express disappointment about not being able to touch her yet, and affirm your interest when she asks.
• At the party, express your feelings to Karlach, and later suggest throwing water on her to cool her down for a kiss. She'll be open to this idea and allow you to see other people until her heart is fixed.
• In Act II, continue to provide Dammon with Infernal Iron to further tune her up.
• In Act III, take Karlach on a date to solidify your relationship.

Karlach Romance Special Notes:

• Karlach becomes very upset if you sleep with other characters. Apologize sincerely if this happens to potentially win her back. After fixing her heart, you can enter a long-term, exclusive relationship.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's romance enhances his storyline, making it a compelling choice for players interested in his character development.

How to Romance Wyll:

• Build approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting Wyll in his quests, including showing him the truth about Karlach.
• Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove to unlock the option to spend the night with Wyll during the party.
• In Act II, after a long rest, you'll encounter Wyll dancing. Follow romantic dialogue prompts to maintain the relationship.
• In Act III, help Wyll save his father and complete his task with Ansur to unlock the final romantic encounter.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel's romance can be either short-term or long-term, depending on your actions and choices.

How to Romance Lae'zel:

• Increase her approval through decisive action and combat, favoring intimidation over persuasion or deception.
• Once her approval is high, initiate a conversation in camp about her different look towards you, which can lead to a one-night stand.
• In Act II, accept her duel challenge. Regardless of the outcome, you'll progress in the romance.
• In Act III, your relationship's outcome depends on whether Lae'zel sides with Vlaakith or Orpheus. Siding with Orpheus can lead to a public relationship during the ending sequence.

Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:

• Lae'zel requires exclusivity and will end the relationship if you cheat on her after the duel.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin's romance is popular among fans, especially for his unique character traits.

How to Romance Halsin:

• Ensure you lift the Shadow Curse before concluding Act II to keep romance options open.
• Rescue Halsin from the Goblin Camp to make him available as a companion.
• In Act II, help Halsin find Thaniel to make him join your party. Keep him in your party and focus on kindness, reverence for nature, and fairness to build approval.
• Regularly check and exhaust all of Halsin's dialogue options, particularly those about former lovers.
• Once his approval is high enough, Halsin will visit you at night. Be honest about other relationships, as Shadowheart and Astarion are okay with it, but Karlach and Gale are not.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Minthara's romance is unique, often associated with an evil playthrough, adding a different flavor to the game.

How to Romance Minthara:

• Avoid combat at the Goblin Camp and side with Minthara, betraying your party and the Emerald Grove.
• After defeating the grove, express honor in fighting beside her, 'Embrace the change,' and open your mind to invite her to your camp.
• At the goblin party, tell Minthara you are hers and go to bed. Pass the persuasion check to avoid her attacking you.

Note: Some players report that you can knock Minthara out at the Goblin Camp, rescue her in Act II, and then romance her. We will update this guide once we have confirmed this method.

Minthara Romance Special Notes:

• Choosing the evil path with Minthara significantly alters the game's experience, causing tension with other party members.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

How to Romance Mizora:

• Keep Wyll in your party and avoid siding with Minthara.
• Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony below Moonrise Towers in Act II.
• In Act III, speak to Mizora at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation about Duke Ravengard.
• Rest until she visits your camp, then speak to her about wanting something "beyond these planes." Ask her what she's suggesting and smile to trigger the one-off romance scene.

How to Romance the Guardian:

• Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Act II and Act III.
• Evolve into Half-Ilithid to boost approval.
• Learn about the Emperor's past lover in their old hideout.
• When the Emperor visits after discovering their past, choose to hold their hand.
• During the next visit, acknowledge their flirting and respond positively to trigger the romance scene.

How to Romance the Drow Twins:

• Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing in Act III.
• Speak to Mamzell Amira near the bar to either complete a quest for her or pay directly for access to the twins.
• Follow the directions to their chambers to initiate the scene. Avoid inviting Gale or Karlach if you're in a relationship with them.

How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:

• Reach the House of Hope and cross the 'Mystic Force Curtain' to enter the Boudoir.
• Engage with Haarlep, an Incubus in Raphael's service, who offers a romantic encounter. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.

How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:

• Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing and find the locked door marked by a green lantern and ivy.
• Pick the lock or obtain the key from Mamzell to enter the chamber where you'll find Naoise and Jara.
• After defeating the Mindflayer that Jara turns into, speak to Naoise and follow the romantic cues to initiate a brief romantic scene, granting you the Rapture buff until your next long rest.